A man was hesitant to visit Elder Paisios. He felt ashamed because people said he was involved with many women, and he worried others might overhear and judge him. He thought he might even be the last one allowed to see the Elder.

When he finally came, Elder Paisios looked at him and said,

“What can I tell you, my son? The Virgin Mary tells me not to say anything to you, because you are helping an orphan.”

This message was clear — Elder Paisios was prevented from speaking any harsh words because the Virgin Mary protected the man, recognizing his good deed in helping an orphan.

This story reminds us that true spiritual guidance is rooted in love and mercy, seeing the heart beyond appearances or rumors.