Saint Porphyry says

 and Saint Porphyry says the

mental and physical health of every child

begins with the way of conception because it is essential

I repeat this the psychological and physical health

of every child starts with the way of conception and you listen to a monk an

ascetic a saint what did someone exhort boldly to

his spiritual children how should the

a couple comes together first he says we create an atmosphere this is what the

sexologist first says we create an atmosphere but what

atmosphere we incense

we pray and pray together she says the man and

the woman cannot she says that sexuality

of the couple must be a union of two flesh only

, she says, it is a deeply mysterious relationship, so we should

create a mystery in this relationship, we burn incense, she says, and

we pray, that the couple considers it very important when they come together to

pray beforehand so that this relationship is

in a holy spirit, because the saints saw what we don't see, I had a

spiritual eye and saw instead that there is no moment in

man that is not affected either by the holy spirit positively or by the other

negative demonic spirits, that is, if

we are indifferent and do not cooperate with the holy spirit at that time when

the couple comes together, regardless of whether they will have a child or not, always with childbearing,

no matter how many times the couple comes together, if the couple does not cooperate with the holy

spirit, then the other spirits will come, the

wicked ones, and then what happens to our child now that it can

result from the union of the two bodies then it will be a child who from the

time of conception is a receiver of actives and you will raise him and say

how did the child turn out to be so capricious so

nervous with such moods with such urges if but you bring your mind to that

the time that day if god enlightens you and you see then you will

realize that you are the cause of the child's eyes